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April 30, 2007

QueQui QuintanaRoo Newspaper
Positive Mind
"I don't know what to do; my son is so anxious and uneasy"

How many times have I found myself with complaining parents, "I don't know what to do anymore, my son is so problematic as he gets angry at everything, reacting by screaming all throughout the day. I'm worried that he is being influenced by something that is causing him to behave that way".
The curious thing is when you take a look at the parents; you see that their eyes are overflowing with neurosis, tension and stress. And yet they expect to have a quiet, easy going and obedient child?
The fact is that something's certainly not flowing, but it's not always the fault of the child.
What can you expect when the kid's source of learning and inspiration is corrupted, seeing nothing but problems everywhere, and his innocence has to be sacrificed in order to be like Mom or Dad? And really they are just experiencing a number of accumulated disturbing moments that they refuse to accept as reality that eventually ends up driving them crazy.

The simple fact is that the situation requires a simple change of perception.

A newborn baby is a unique being, a new creation of existence, and we should be focusing on: What exactly does this baby wish to bring to the world?, What can we learn from him?

But instead we are actually lost in our own desires and busy thinking: What can we do with this child? How can we transform him into someone useful? What will he be? a lawyer, an engineer, a doctor, or something useful for us maybe.. And there is where we start the forced transformation, just like a tree, we start placing limits, cutting, tearing apart everything that is natural for the child but anti-natural for the parents or the society, according to a system of beliefs and conditioning that has been repeating the same circle from generation to generation.

And clearly what we obtain after all this cutting and molding to our desires, is a decent and respectable citizen, a true master of art: a genius human being.

But… what happened to this unique being?

Every child deserves the opportunity to discover his own feeling for his life, the right to discover his own path to follow. We simply have to help guide him, preparing the ground so that he flowers and blossoms to his potential, not according to or limited to our own expectations, but to help him develop the very essence that is living inside of him.

Now you may say that meditation for children is a contradiction in terms. It’s more accurate to say that children are meditation. They are our closest contact that we have to the Source; that purity of existence. There is nothing that a small child does that isn’t in a meditative form; fully experiencing each moment in its totality. Whether it is laughing intensely, playfully following a butterfly, crying or screaming at the top of their lungs… but unfortunately this intensity of living doesn’t prove functional in our world

We think: How is it possible that this screaming kid can become an accountant? Is it possible that this unruly disobedient little devil will obey orders and become a soldier in the military and serve his country? And that is how the frustration begins.
The child begins receiving contradicting messages from everywhere, saying: that's not good, not that way, you have to change, and that's when all that fresh energy and vitality gets repressed. .

And we begin to call them dysfunctional citizens who are not really humans gone wrong; we can call these people in society more accurately great works of repressed art.

Nowadays it is ‘in style’ to take your kids to therapy, to help them correct their "faults", so the adults don't have to feel guilty for any failures they could have incurred as parents.
But what is there to fix in the child?

Many therapists laugh when parents come asking for a session for their children, as they soon discover that the ones that really need help are the parents. They soon learn that they need to solve their own neurosis. Clean the atmosphere in which the child is growing. And then they soon realize that the problem doesn’t reside inside of the child.

The only thing that kids need is a space where they can just be themselves, where they can jump, run, scream… a protected environment of acceptance to be what they truly are today: children. Without our worries and demands placed upon them of what they may be converting into tomorrow.


A breakthrough has taken place in spirituality!

In this divine state you consciously experience your divine self and become one with God. This can be experienced as a great explosion of love or joy, much more profound than any worldly pleasure.
When someone reaches this state of being, this connection with God, the divine, the absolute, they will surely have achieved the ultimate that being on this earth can offer.

Diksha energy is universal & useful in all spiritual traditions.
It enhances our ability to connect from the Heart with the Divine & with the people we love.
Many report that after receiving Diksha they experience healing on all levels, as well as powerful and ongoing spiritual awakening. People are seeking harmony and joy.
We have discovered that it is possible for everybody to live in that state of inner freedom,
even permanently.

Experiences

“How can I describe this Sea of Light that I am bathing in, so that people who aren’t there yet can understand? Words are not powerful enough to mirror this new world, for a new world is what it is. And of course, before this I could feel Love, Joy & Peace, but to BE Love, Joy & Peace is something completely different!
The transfer of DIVINE GRACE, DIKSHA, brought me into a Love & Oneness Consciousness. I am so grateful… crying almost every day out of Joy, Peace and Gratitude. Thank you!” Louisa

Just a few days after hurricane Wilma destroyed Cancún…. Amazingly, I was living an incredible state of peace! I felt I was not a part of the crazy circumstances. I felt completely apart from everything and I DID NOT IDENTIFY WITH ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING THAT WAS HAPPENING! As MOST people were extremely worried identifying themselves as lost in desperate situations, I was absolutely in peace, with certainty that everything happens for the higher good. I felt completely at peace inside of myself…. Surrounded by so much love…. when my colleagues left the refuge to go back to what was left of the city, they had no idea of the ugliness that was happening outside.
Miracles began happening to all of us!!! Flor



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