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Positive Mind
"I don't know what
to do; my son is so
anxious and uneasy"
How many times have
I found myself with
complaining parents,
"I don't know what
to do anymore, my
son is so
problematic as he
gets angry at
everything, reacting
by screaming all
throughout the day.
I'm worried that he
is being influenced
by something that is
causing him to
behave that way".
The curious thing is
when you take a look
at the parents; you
see that their eyes
are overflowing with
neurosis, tension
and stress. And yet
they expect to have
a quiet, easy going
and obedient child?
The fact is that
something's
certainly not
flowing, but it's
not always the fault
of the child.
What can you expect
when the kid's
source of learning
and inspiration is
corrupted, seeing
nothing but problems
everywhere, and his
innocence has to be
sacrificed in order
to be like Mom or
Dad? And really they
are just
experiencing a
number of
accumulated
disturbing moments
that they refuse to
accept as reality
that eventually ends
up driving them
crazy.
The simple fact is
that the situation
requires a simple
change of
perception.
A newborn baby is a
unique being, a new
creation of
existence, and we
should be focusing
on: What exactly
does this baby wish
to bring to the
world?, What can we
learn from him?
But instead we are
actually lost in our
own desires and busy
thinking: What can
we do with this
child? How can we
transform him into
someone useful? What
will he be? a
lawyer, an engineer,
a doctor, or
something useful for
us maybe.. And there
is where we start
the forced
transformation, just
like a tree, we
start placing
limits, cutting,
tearing apart
everything that is
natural for the
child but
anti-natural for the
parents or the
society, according
to a system of
beliefs and
conditioning that
has been repeating
the same circle from
generation to
generation.
And clearly what we
obtain after all
this cutting and
molding to our
desires, is a decent
and respectable
citizen, a true
master of art: a
genius human being.
But… what happened
to this unique
being?
Every child deserves
the opportunity to
discover his own
feeling for his
life, the right to
discover his own
path to follow. We
simply have to help
guide him, preparing
the ground so that
he flowers and
blossoms to his
potential, not
according to or
limited to our own
expectations, but to
help him develop the
very essence that is
living inside of
him.
Now you may say that
meditation for
children is a
contradiction in
terms. It’s more
accurate to say that
children are
meditation. They are
our closest contact
that we have to the
Source; that purity
of existence. There
is nothing that a
small child does
that isn’t in a
meditative form;
fully experiencing
each moment in its
totality. Whether it
is laughing
intensely, playfully
following a
butterfly, crying or
screaming at the top
of their lungs… but
unfortunately this
intensity of living
doesn’t prove
functional in our
world
We think: How is it
possible that this
screaming kid can
become an
accountant? Is it
possible that this
unruly disobedient
little devil will
obey orders and
become a soldier in
the military and
serve his country?
And that is how the
frustration begins.
The child begins
receiving
contradicting
messages from
everywhere, saying:
that's not good, not
that way, you have
to change, and
that's when all that
fresh energy and
vitality gets
repressed. .
And we begin to call
them dysfunctional
citizens who are not
really humans gone
wrong; we can call
these people in
society more
accurately great
works of repressed
art.
Nowadays it is ‘in
style’ to take your
kids to therapy, to
help them correct
their "faults", so
the adults don't
have to feel guilty
for any failures
they could have
incurred as parents.
But what is there to
fix in the child?
Many therapists
laugh when parents
come asking for a
session for their
children, as they
soon discover that
the ones that really
need help are the
parents. They soon
learn that they need
to solve their own
neurosis. Clean the
atmosphere in which
the child is
growing. And then
they soon realize
that the problem
doesn’t reside
inside of the child.
The only thing that
kids need is a space
where they can just
be themselves, where
they can jump, run,
scream… a protected
environment of
acceptance to be
what they truly are
today: children.
Without our worries
and demands placed
upon them of what
they may be
converting into
tomorrow.
A breakthrough
has taken place in
spirituality!
In this divine state
you consciously
experience your
divine self and
become one with God.
This can be
experienced as a
great explosion of
love or joy, much
more profound than
any worldly
pleasure.
When someone reaches
this state of being,
this connection with
God, the divine, the
absolute, they will
surely have achieved
the ultimate that
being on this earth
can offer.
Diksha energy is
universal & useful
in all spiritual
traditions.
It enhances our
ability to connect
from the Heart with
the Divine & with
the people we love.
Many report that
after receiving
Diksha they
experience healing
on all levels, as
well as powerful and
ongoing spiritual
awakening. People
are seeking harmony
and joy.
We have discovered
that it is possible
for everybody to
live in that state
of inner freedom,
even permanently.
Experiences
“How can I describe
this Sea of Light
that I am bathing
in, so that people
who aren’t there yet
can understand?
Words are not
powerful enough to
mirror this new
world, for a new
world is what it is.
And of course,
before this I could
feel Love, Joy &
Peace, but to BE
Love, Joy & Peace is
something completely
different!
The transfer of
DIVINE GRACE,
DIKSHA, brought me
into a Love &
Oneness
Consciousness. I am
so grateful… crying
almost every day out
of Joy, Peace and
Gratitude. Thank
you!” Louisa
Just a few days
after hurricane
Wilma destroyed
Cancún…. Amazingly,
I was living an
incredible state of
peace! I felt I was
not a part of the
crazy circumstances.
I felt completely
apart from
everything and I DID
NOT IDENTIFY WITH
ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING
THAT WAS HAPPENING!
As MOST people were
extremely worried
identifying
themselves as lost
in desperate
situations, I was
absolutely in peace,
with certainty that
everything happens
for the higher good.
I felt completely at
peace inside of
myself…. Surrounded
by so much love….
when my colleagues
left the refuge to
go back to what was
left of the city,
they had no idea of
the ugliness that
was happening
outside.
Miracles began
happening to all of
us!!! Flor
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Website: www.livinginoneness.com
